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Articles | Daddy
Why do I refer to myself as a Daddy?
This is NOT a title I chose for myself. It was apparently earned, and was given to me by a woman that I cared for very deeply but has now gone. She and I met through business. I was initially just her client. However, we connected almost immediately and could lose ourselves in conversation for hours at a time. We eventually started dating. (Our last date was dinner, movie (Jurassic World), then stopped for ice cream.) She started calling me Daddy. We had several conversations about what this meant to her and how she saw it as part of our dynamic. At this point, she became my Baby Girl. We even got matching tattoos (her suggestion). Mine says Daddy, hers said Daddys Girl. Unfortunately she is no longer here. She died of an accidental overdose a couple of years ago. I still think about her all the time. What does this mean to me now? I believe that being a Daddy is not about being a Dom. It is more about attitude. It is about caring, being a mentor, loving, supporting and respecting his Baby Girl. And I do not use the term Baby Girl to refer to age play, it is about an attitude. A Daddy should protect and take care of his Baby Girl. He should be her strongest supporter and he should be there for her at any time and at any cost - unconditionally. I do not believe that this is something that you can learn. You are either a Daddy type or you aren't. Many Doms like to be called Daddy but I think that is just for their egos. It generally isn't a title that they have earned. And to me, that means a LOT. I believe that Daddys are born to it. It is their nature. It is the way that they care for and Love the women in their lives. Being a Daddy (at least to me) does not require a sexual aspect. I believe that being a Daddy is more about about 'nurturing' and 'caring for' than about owning or dominating. A good Daddy will always put his Baby Girls needs above his own.
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